Recently me and Austin have came to a common agreement and the screaming at the top of my lungs has stopped. Which is better for everyone. (I have reg to thank for that.) Sometimes hearing the truth hurts. And it pisses you off, but hopefully if someone you love and resepct says it you take something from it and learn. Tonight was one of those times. Not for me but for steven. We had big storms down here tonight, and steven wanted the babies in bed so in case anything happen we didnt have alot to do just grab the sleeping kids and not gather up the running wild children. Well when we told Austin it was time for bed he threw a temper tantrum and told steven he hated him and that he was the worst dad ever. When I was leaving to run down the road steven told austin to get up so he could speak to him. Well when I came home austin was still up, and i made the comment that I wish he would of let me know that the kids could stay up b/c I would of let the babies get up. They get up at 7 in the morning and I would of liked to sleep in. Well steven got angry and said I was picking on Austin. I tried to defend myself but steven yells that I'm a liar and I pick on austin all the time.(this is where austin gets this. Austin has yelled at me several times I am just a big meanie and that I pick on him and I'm a liar) I havent picked on austin. I got angry tonight and I admit that but not at Austin at steven. Steven doesnt want to be the bad guy he wants to be the good guy. Tonight Austin screams I hate you you're the worst dad ever. and Austin got to stay up and watch tv. What is that teaching him? Throw a fit and you can stay up all night. Steven should of got austin up told him what he did was wrong, and then made him go back to bed. He can be mad at me for pointing it out all he wants he's the one in the wrong. xoxox Tara